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A Liturgy Before Mourning with Those Who Mourn


Note: As we observe Memorial Day to honor and mourn the men and women who have given their lives following their duty to serve their country, we wanted to share a liturgy appropriate for the occasion.



O Christ Acquainted

with All Our Griefs,

prepare our hearts to enter now

this space of grieving.


O God of All Comfort,

Lead us humbly into this place of heartbreak.


O Spirit Who Moves

in the Midst of Our Sorrows,

Fill us with a right compassion.


Fill us with a right compassion that

we would not cross this threshold

armed with easy answers,

but would enter instead

bearing the balm of a divine tenderness

best expressed in honest affirmations

and small acts of service.


Teach us even in this hour, O Lord,

how better to mourn

with those who mourn,

that their burden

might in some way

be made more bearable

by our sharing in it.


O Lord, in this place of holy sorrows make us

quick to listen, and slow to speak,

reminding us how the only true comfort

Job received from his friends

came not from their many words

but from a willingness to sit with him

in a silent sympathy of weeping.


So let any spoken comforts we offer

be the fruits of a real and costly fellowship

with those who grieve.


The sharing of such sorrows is instead

a good and holy work, O Lord.

For you also, Jesus, willingly entered

the wounds of this world and wept

with your creatures in their brokenness.

And you have promised us

that wherever your children gather

in your name, you will be present as well.


So be present with us now

in this wounded space,

O Spirit of God.

Let our presence be sensed as a token

of your presence.

Let our concern bear unspoken witness

to the redemption your love

will one day work, even unto

the utter and unimaginably glorious

reversal of this loss.


Now speak, act, and comfort, O Christ.

Shepherd us into the sharing

of this sorrow.


May our hearts be as your heart here,

our voices as your voice,

our hands as your hands,

our tears as your tears.


Amen.



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